Love : overhyped and misunderstood....

Sooooo whats love.. Pta toh mujhe bhi nhi hai sch kho toh, but if i say my perspective, then kuch kuch ajeeb toh hai...

Pyaar ke baare me kya he kha jaaa skta hai.. Bas ek connection hota hai thats it. Its nothing more than that... Ab normally sunne me lagta hai ki husband wife yaa fir gf bf... Yhi sb toh hai pyaaar, but naaaaah ye sb toh bas jbrdsti ke rishte hain, naaah toh gf bf hmesa tikkte hain aur naah he husband wife mostly, aur agar tikk bhi jaaye hsuband wife toh ya tih baccge ke liye yaa fir bas shaantimay jainfagi chl rhi hai.... Khush waisa pyaar tyoes toh wo log bhi nhi hote. Haaan ab ye sb ke baare me toh nhi he hai.. India me toh ratio bhot jyaada hai sccha pyaar types after marriage....

Arrange marriage ka concept accha toh hai but most of the time it gets cinnected wrongly... Due to many reasons.. Ab shaaadi pe toh vivad kr nhi rhe, toh kya he usme ghuse...

But yeah normally jo dikhta hai pyaar in this new generation is not like that... Most of the teenagers gf bf are like just attracted ki haaan koi opposite sex ka hai toh connect hoke dekhte hain ki kaisa hai.... And not like ekdm gjb junooni pyaaar. Some gets the right match in this and mostly not... Dheere dheere rishte ka mtlb just rests as tharak.. And nothing else.... (in todays times)

See, main bhot idhr udhr bhatak jaata hu bolte bilte, agar aap pkar ske toh pkr lijiye point...

Pyaaar is just that pure cinnection jo soch kr hota he nhi ki bhaaai ye kitti sundr hai yaa iske saath rhna hai....

Its just a connection where u feeel safe, opened... Kbhi drrr naa lage baat krte huye ki haaan ye wala baaat hurt kr dega ya nhi, bole ya nhi bole. That understanding is what is love.... That understanding and that vibe match betweeen two is what is love.... Its not just between people... Also betweeen families, pets, things..... Its a cinnection between a person emotion and something which makes it feeel special that they are there with you always when u neeed them Chahe bhle he kyu na maar peeet ho gya ho kuch der phle but if u need them, tgey r there keeping their ego aside...

Its something cant be explained in this way.. Bare bare poets itta kuch likh ke chle gye hain

This topic is overlooked and something misunderstoood by most of he people. Every persons love definition is alag.. Some define it by tharak(lust) If they are doing it... Some define it by saaath rhna. Some define it by someone u missdd.... But for me the best definition of it is vibe, understanding and thats it..

Its like not anyones fault... Ab jo kbhi feel he nhi jr paaya ho khud ye chiz, they will not understand what i am saying and for them its just labbb labbb labbbb bhassn....

If its a bhasan also for u, then dude, its not me who is old school its u who have not exoerienced the best version of love..

Its like if u have eaten the kashmiri apple then u know that locals are not the best something exist in this world better than this and u would not like the local one.. When u know that addidas exist then u may buy campud shoes but u will not be happy . And if u dont knos

W addidas, then w

If u buy a local shoes, u will ne happy..

Its not abput being happy in what u havr

Its about dont ignore or judge when someone saying about addidas shoes and u r wearing campus shoes and flexing about confort

So what is love. I know i also dont know.. The best. But upto what extreme i have experienced....

U may find many videos.... On youtube explaining about it... But if u wanna know what is love, just keep a pet and u will get to know it automatically the love u do there is whats the ourest one, the way you muss them when they gine, the way you live haappy with them even if they poop on your bed or mess the whole house or eveb if shows attitude (cats) stilll u love tgem and take care of it. Just like ur mother do with u... People think love are of different tyoes different betweeen gf bf, different between mon and dad and dufferent between pets and non living things but naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah dude.

Its based on how wide ur persoective is...

In actual the basus of tgese all love is same , asj thud to a mother who have pet also. , she keeps both as equal love both her real child and the pet as same...

Ask a manabout hus bike... He bought from his own savig..

Thats all is love. And that all are same thing. Its no difference bwtween these.....

U are dufferentiating yhese for ur ease of living ti descrive yiur tharak, attraction as love category..

To havev sex with someone is not what defines love... That may be just lust or that mean that girl trust tgat man this much that she opens up for him.

Not saying this for boys kyunki unka kya he h, aise he nanga punga ghumta rhta h aisee bhiii.

Topic is not about sex but yeah many think that if it has reached to sex then yo baby its love, turuuuuu love.

It sounds ajeeb but to have sex is no way a way to express love, its just the fun activity fir a girl and what for man is writeen in next blog...

Dontbknow why people relate the love with sex, breakup badla...

Yeah i know upar se nikl jaa rhi ye baatein, ekdm glt lag rha... But yeah idiliye wo campus and addidas ka baat kiye the..

People are influenced so much by insta loves, new gf bf on roads... And movies that they forget what it is in actual. Jbrdsti apne hrkaton ko love bolkr khus ho lete hain...

Yeah breakuo hurts but reason shoukd noy be ki wo mujhe chhorkr kisi aur ke passs gye... And living happy.... It is love when u get hurt just becz of ki wo tumhare pass nhi. And if they are haopy away from u, then also its accwptance ki haan khudh yoh hai km se km. Khush rhe bas shaanti se.... Ilove is selfless.. U dont expect anything or any tyoe of love reaxn from your things (cars/ teddy....) u just love them for no reason.its just that u love, thered no rrason, no motive. You care for it... Even if its not with u,,, you just wish that is is just safe... It hurts when they are not in giod cindition...

Tidays love definigion is changed a lot but also that pure forms exists in platonic... Form of live for things, pets... But for persons in between, it has changed and verg very expectations in it ki haan agar wo mera hai toh wo kisi ayr se baat nhi kr skta. He shoukd be aware of ki hm ussey pyaar krte toh wo mera hai... Naaaah dude... Its aboyt person choice whom they like.... Its not about ki sirf ek he insaan se hota hai pyaaar. U love another teddy also even if u have one. But yeah that old one is the one you love most , the one with whom u have cried in nights.. With whom you have spent times... In cocnlusion, it is yeah for one only but to get that one. U may need to cross through some more to know that it is atkeast not that one. Dont be sad if someone gies and u are like apun toh issey pyaaar krta hai... Naaah kya pata someone else is your suompreme love...

I know my both statements are contradictory ki ek he hai aur jruri nhi ki ek he se ho.... As i said its so cimplex thing which cant be explained in so easg.

Mtlb hai toh bhot simple sa chiz that selfless without expectation bonding

Its completely person to person that wjat they think about love. Mere khne se naa toh tum maan loge na kuch... Its just ki may be the place where u are currentlg is not the one what is actual love , yeah you may be happy in campus shoes but the real cimfort is away waiting for u to be mafure amd explode the people to understand the value kf that one.....

U cant know what the valhe of that special person unless u have experienced that bad ones... So dont be sad when u have gkne through a bad experience in name of love.. Atleast u know that it is not love. Aatleast u will know that atyraction, beauty, money, sex.... Nothing is love... It is not even the side factors that people describes it as to justify their demand ki haan sex ho toh ek boost up milta hai.... Its nothing. Love is just that pure bond with nk expectation.......

I have explained what it is. If u can comclude whole thing then yo you get the point, although i messed whole thing and u may nkt reached to comnclusion.. But uour answer lies in these texts if u are finding one....

Baaaaki jyaada bakwaas kya he krein...